How Can I Remind My Parents to Take Their Medication From Far Away?
If you have ever typed "how can I remind my parents to take their medication from far away?" into a search box at eleven at night, this page is for you. One son told us: "I live hours away from Mom. I can't just pop over to make sure she's taking care of herself." You cannot be in her kitchen at nine every morning. A phone call can.
Sarah calls in your parent's time zone, at the times you choose. If nobody answers after two tries, she calls you. Works on a landline.
How Do I Set Up Medication Reminders for Someone Who Lives in Another State?
You do the setup from your own home. Nothing is shipped to your parents, and nobody needs to visit.
Talk to Mom first
The person getting the calls has to know and agree. Tell her a kind voice named Sarah will call at the agreed times each day. Sarah's first call is a short hello where she asks if it's all right to call each day.
Give us two phone numbers and two times
Her number, which can be a landline, and yours. A morning time and an evening time in her time zone, not yours. Add her doctor's or pharmacy's number if you have it; Sarah can read it to her if she asks about a medicine.
The calls start, and you can see them
Each call gets a written note: answered or not, what she said, and when. You read it from three states away. A weekly summary comes by text or email.
How Can I Get Notified If My Parent Doesn't Answer a Medication Reminder Call?
The same son said: "I'd love something that checks in with her automatically and gives me a heads-up when she needs my attention." That heads-up is a phone call to you.
First call
Sarah calls at the time you chose. No answer, busy, or voicemail all count as not answered. She does not leave long messages.
Second call
A few minutes later she tries again. Most of the time this one reaches Mom, who was in the yard or on the other line.
Then your phone rings
If a real person still has not answered, Sarah calls the family member you named. If three siblings share the worry, pick one person for this call so nobody assumes someone else has it.
When we call you, it means the reminder was not answered. It does not mean the medication was missed. We record what your parent said, not what happened, and we never guess.
How to Stop Worrying About Whether Your Elderly Parent Took Their Medicine
You won't stop completely. Loving someone from far away comes with a low hum of worry. But you can shrink it.
Replace guessing with a record
One daughter told us: "I call Dad whenever I can, but I have my own family and responsibilities. I feel guilty when an entire day goes by and I haven't checked on him." With a record, a day going by is no longer a day of nothing. Two calls were made, and you can see what he said.
Know what silence means
Worry grows in the gap between "I haven't heard from Dad" and "something is wrong". Our rule is simple: if two calls go unanswered, your phone rings. If it has not rung, the calls were answered.
Make your calls about him again
When Sarah carries the medication question, your Sunday call can be about the garden and the grandchildren. The same daughter put it this way: "I'd feel better knowing he's getting regular reminders and that I'll be notified if he doesn't answer."
So, how can I remind my parents to take their medication from far away? Pick the times, give us the numbers, and let the phone do the distance.
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Does my mom need anything new at her house?
No. Sarah calls the phone she already has, including a landline. There is nothing to install, charge, or learn. She answers, talks, and hangs up.
We are in different time zones. Whose time do the calls follow?
Your parent's. You choose a morning time and an evening time in their time zone when you sign up. If Mom is in Arizona and you are in Boston, her 9 am call is her 9 am.
Can my sister be the one who gets the alert instead of me?
Yes. You name one family member as the person Sarah calls when a reminder goes unanswered. It can be whoever lives closest, and you can change it any time.
What does it mean when you call me?
It means the reminder call was not answered after two tries. It does not mean a dose was missed. Most of the time a quick call from you finds Mom in the garden or at a neighbor's.
How Do I Set Up Medication Reminders for My Mom?
Two phone numbers and the call times you choose. We call you within a day to set it up, from wherever you are. From $12.99 a month, cancel any time.
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